I look around and see some people not happy. Whether it’s due to being single or a bad situation. We are all in control of our situations. Life is hard within itself. Why have people in yours that makes it harder. People just has to accept people for who they really are. You can’t make a man be a man until he himself is ready to become one. Most of us searching for the one. The one who will make us happy, love again and be our friend and lover. It’s out there and it’s a blessing. Some of us block our blessing due to it’s not presented how you would like it to be. We are not perfect nor relationships. It has to fit like a puzzle. You complete me as I complete you. So if you are looking for that one. Look outside your box and you will find it. True and real love isn’t a long shot. Just have to understand and know what you want. We see people in relationships all the time and we ask why you with them. It’s because they get it and we don’t. Remember a diamond don’t come out of the earth looking like a shiny expensive diamond that you would pay great money for. In conclusion think and live outside the box. Opposite attracts one another. Respect and love the person and fighting for something is worth having.
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The human interaction. Is it dead or alive. Some people ask the question and this is how I feel. I believe we have lost touch on how to interact with other human beings. We sole rely on text messages, voice chat and the internet. We have websites such as Facebook, Classmates and etc which allow us to talk to each other without the real interaction. This all causes anioexty among humans because now they don’t know how to interact with other people. Talking on the phone, texting is a different atmosphere than sitting beside someone holding a conversation. It even hurt your connection skills when dealing with relationships. You have some people who rather or relate to animals more than they do humans. It’s all about the social disconnect. The old days if you wanted to relax or chill not having the gadgets that we have now made you get up and go over their house and hang out or talk. People rather have an hour worth of conversation over text or phone. We have to start looking at ourselves and figure out a solution. It’s some people who can write everyday on Facebook or other sites but don’t even pick up the phone to call family members and friends. They also think that just by saying hello and holding a conversation on these sites constitute real friendship. If we look at everything that’s going on with this world. It starts with us and will end with us if we don’t change the path we are heading towards. Let me know how you feel about this. I leave with this rule. ” If you want real things to happen or come true then be real yourself. Real recognize Real. “
Society don’t really paint a good picture on what a father means to their children. We are just as important to a kids life. Society paints a picture that there are a lot of fatherless kids out there. This may be true but what is the real reason for this. Human beings don’t just react or live without a meaning. Meaning it’s a truth behind everyone action. We should find the truth before we slander someone. We also need to think about how was their parents to them growing up. You do have some dead beat dads out here just as you do mothers. There are also mothers out here in the world who makes it hard for fathers to take care of their children. You should never use a kid as a pawn to get back at someone. Life and raising a kid is not chess. Your basically playing rush and roulette. Here are somethings i believe that are very vital to making sure your children are taught the necessary tools in life to blossom into a respectable woman or man. Please chime in and let me know your opinions. We all need to step up as parents and make sure this world turns to a better place. We as fathers are role models to our kids. Daughters should wanna meet someone like their dads. Men should grow up wanting to treat his wife like his father does. Don’t let their friends, t.v and society raise your kids.
Long Distance Relationships share the same facts as an average relationship. It involves two people who share an interest in each other’s lives, care for one another and of course have a love for each other that they hope will only continue to grow. On the other hand, a long distance relationship does have its differences as well. It takes away your ability to see each other on a frequent note, as well as the choice of being intimate whenever you desire, not to mention that there would be major trust required. Being unable to spend time together in a physical presence makes it harder to hang on to, but does not spell out doom for your relationship.
The first step is to make an agreement of what your expectations are in the relationship and how much of a commitment you are willing to give and receive. If the two of you decide to be monogamous, then it is clear that neither of you will be dating anyone else as long as your romantic relationship exists. Being clear about what you both want is extremely important, especially in a long distance relationship, in order to prevent future misunderstandings and mistakes. Do not feel afraid to tell your partner what you really need and want from him or her, you deserve the chance to speak from your heart and he or she deserves to know the truth and judge whether they can give it to you.
Trust is a major necessity if you wish to have your relationship from a distance. Without trust and honesty, the relationship is in for danger and unsuccessfulness, just as it would be any other relationship. By accepting the challenge of a long distance relationship, you also accepted the fact that you will have to have the trust and faith that your partner will not be seeing anyone else as promised. Being paranoid and accusing will only grow doubts, insecurity and tension between you and none of those three will help the relationship survive successfully.
Forgiveness is very powerful. When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is much stronger than steel. To forgive is the highest, most beautiful form of love. In return you will receive untold peace and happiness. How do you feel about this?
Someone once told me that they loved me but weren’t in love with me. Is there a real difference? I believe that if someone loves you and really mean it. Then you shouldn’t just be able to switch it off or on like a light switch. When you get mad and say oh i don’t love you anymore. I thought love was unconditional and had no boundaries. I don’t like the gesture but some people believe it that these two things are different. How do you feel about this?
So take, these broken wings
I need your hands to come and heal me once again
(Until the end of time)
So I can fly away, until the end of time
Until the end of time
Until the end of time
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What is it these days that you can’t seem to find the right person. It seems that we have a lot of broken emotional people. People allow the past come thru to the present. It’s a reason why we call it the past. You can’t let people pay for someone else mistakes. Start fresh and just take it for what it is. I know it’s easier said than done, but in order to give someone a chance you have too. I’ve been told that there aren’t any nice guys left out here in the world. I also been told i am too nice. If i would treat her like a dog she would be more into me. Isn’t that contradicting yourself. It’s nice guys out here but you can’t complain when you keep finding bad boys and keep getting hurt. You seek in what you put out. It’s time for people to take responsibility. It seems to me though nice guys do finish last. What do you think or how do you feel about this? Do woman want a bad boy or a nice guy?
The question is do you know what it really means to be romantic? When do you become romantic in a relationship? What’s the difference between being romantic and romance. I think that being romantic involves things such as telling your spouse he/she looks pretty out of the blue. Buying flowers and candy or etc not just on special occasions or holidays. Showing appreciation of your spouse. Taking trips just you and the spouse to enjoy each other. Making a day out of a week just for the two of ya. Making dinner over candle light with nice mellow music in the back ground. Drinking some wine on the rug in front of the fireplace. What’s your thoughts?